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Lucky

When you don't post for eight months, it's hard to know where to start. As Inigo Montoya says "Let me 'splain... no, there is too much......

Care

"Take care of you!" My mom always says as I go out the door or hang up the phone. Lately, I've been doing kind of a crap job of it. I've...

Dream

I don't know if you know, but I sing. A lot. All the time. I've sung for grades, for money, for love, for spite. I can't stop singing....

Cycling: Brave

I am a big "Yoga with Adriene" fan. And since I've been cleared by my Dr. to go back to Normal Life after the hysterectomy, I've been...

Cycling: Beginning

One of the things I love most about being an unattached adult with no dependents is the ability to realize my hare-brained schemes with...

Single

Guys, I listened to Unladylike Podcast's series on being single and life. changed. is all I can really say. Since then, I've been...

Know

My new therapist saw into my soul a few weeks ago and I can't unhear her voice saying "You don't know who you are on your own and you're...

Phase

We have this aversion to phases. I'm not sure I've ever heard "It's a phase" used in a positive light, and I'm here today to encourage us...

Lists

From July-November I was in sex therapy. And one thing I learned in that therapy was the term "cheerleading" to describe when you're...

Plenty

At Least I can vacuum Even if I can’t wash the floors today At Least I can make some salad Even if I can’t cook an actual meal today...

Therapy

CW: I talk about having suicidal thoughts Last week I had my final phone session with my therapist of four years. I call her my Life...

Pride/Wrath

I have tried twice to write a post about Pride, but have gotten so angry halfway through writing it that the post was unpublishable. I...

Hair

So, I stopped shaving sometime around October 2019, and it's the best thing I've ever done. Now, I'm not #blessed to be one of those...

Hurdles

I don't know about you, but I often feel like I am stumbling forward in life. Somehow I manage to keep my feet under me, only by the...

Contradictions

Here I go, dropping incredibly deep revelations as always: There is a lot in this life to be afraid of. Sometimes I feel like running out...

Unmet

CW: I talk about my relationship to food in this one. If that's a triggering subject for you then you may want to skip this post <3 Take...

Separate

Guys, you can change your own life with blinding speed. Two weeks ago I was married. Now I've been separated for a week and a half. I've...

Gains

CW: Body image issues, weight/size talk, fat phobia This year, I had a new, surprising experience. Here's the setup: In Ontario we're...

Thirty

What I am telling myself every day is: every year that passes is such a golden opportunity to embrace the adventure that is living.

Bi

Let me tell you a long story. Like, a put-the-kettle-on, how-are-you-*really*-doing saga. If you aren't in a long story mood, you've been...

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